I really hope he does though. I asked him to give us another chance, I wrote him a letter, and I made him a book online, all the things I love about him. I also feel like the entire "relationship" was a lie. He then explains how what he's seeing in me is what he's looking for. Personally, I wish I would have never met him in the first place. He uses religion a lot to make him feel like a spiritual person. Because I love him more than anything in this world tbh. and 2 days after the break up he posted a pic with a girl calling her he’s main chick and kinda turned cold but he kept texting me after a couple of months ‘Hi ‘ mind you he did that while still being a don’t care on social media. He still hasn't said I love you after 6 months? I am a single lady aged 35. recently I encountered a man aged 23 flatter with me. After saying I would marry him, doubt has really messed things up. He admits that he was an a*hole in the relationship and I have some emotional issues. He’s more distant than usual . Hold your head high girl and brush that sh*t off :). He does talk about me being in his life in the future. I dont do drugs, smoke or gambling. His rebound girlfriend hates you with a fiery passion. this … 2 years ago. SomebodyElse. He took the book when I handed it to him but said he didn’t want to be in a relationship anymore. He broke up with me 2 months ago because he couldnt be in a relationship. After it was over it was hard to handle and very painful. Then when i try to leave, he finds a reason for me to stay. He also treated my daughter great. He said he cares bout me a lot but takes those 3 words really seriously & won't say them till he's 100% sure. *he bought new house in his name only. He is really good at this facade. Along with 4 deaths of immediate family in my life in those same 2 years time. It hit me in my chest. He said I love you before we had even started dating and had only known each other for 2 and a half weeks. RELATED: Why He Keeps You Around Even If He … Or did he just say those things to get me in bed? When he won’t move on after your breakup, he probably still loves you. He'll either come back or he won't. My boyfriend said he loved me, then dumped me -- can I win him back? But his actions show differently. He told me like he really truely meant it but I don’t know if he really meant it. A gentleman, crazy about me and being around me. After we finally got to meet in January (started talking end of November) he said he loved me after only visiting him in Florida for 5 days. N when we do it takes him a while to reply back. Then after 5 months he left her and we got back together. Reply. We barely text as much. 2. Dont i believe in him. Almost 2 months later he came back and said he was struggling to cope with catching feelings. Last week, about 3 months after the last time he messaged he sent me a random text out of the blue. A month after that he asked me to go for a drink when he is in my state next, and I very politely declined. From what you have said about him he loves you too. When your spouse puts down whatever he is doing, makes eye contact, and pays attention while you are talking to him, that’s a sign that, after all these years, he still believes you have important things to say. It was at 11:30pm and he said “I saw ….. the other day and thought of you. He gave me a thank you card after and signed the card “love”. After all, he's either said up front that he's not ready for a relationship, or he's hinted that committing to you just isn't in the cards. Or will he ever come back . Tell him My husband told me within a week, moved in after 3 and we're still madly in love 9 years later, when you know you know. He told me he loved me within a month, and I told him that was crazy since he didn't really know me. Sounds like he's either serious and freaked or he's just up to no good. Update: He ghosted me for 2 months because he was afraid to tell me he was getting deployed for 2 years in the UK–he was terrified to say goodbye. We def broke up after that. Many women say they thought their guy was about to break up with them when he popped the question! My ex texted me after 2 months NC, he said he will Always have love for me and he will always value everything I say. We don’t really talk on the phone anymore. 10. 1. After a year he left me for his ex and i had to move out. He says he wants us to get married some day, after living together, which would be in a couple of years based on logistics with kids. He invited me to a family wedding at three months. But however I read something that has stuck with me: Falling in love can take weeks or even days, but developing a deep and authentic bond takes years. we chat a lot daily , he says he misses me and at a point requested to be referring to me as mom. Anyway, his plan now is move out of this rental house into a house. Linda. *I know that he loves me because of his consistency over 58 years. Couple months go by he texts me he sorry and loves me and didn’t know why he emailed her cuz he loves me. Whatever the situation that has led you to say, he loves me but won’t commit, ... We moved in together after only two months of dating. Lara says: June 24, 2020 at 6:51 pm . After 2 months we told each other I love you. So all of this happened in exactly one year. I love this amnesia part, so savy <3. He said he loves me multiple times, he has ended two engagements before me (over a 10 year period) .. Dogsmom Mon 05-Nov-12 18:36:56. So he contacted me after i said no to reconciling to let me know he had been in psychiatric facility for a week and intensive outpatient program. Hi So my ex and dated like back in 2017 and we were like so In love but he got mad n broke up with me. Reply. I declined, as I was not ready to meet his entire family. By Gilda Carle. We got engaged in June and married in November. However, after 9 months of dating he all of a sudden fell out of love with me. He seemed so perfect. It sucks being left with unanswered questions, and after 2 months, I think I deserve some form of explanation. I feel like I took it well, let him know that it made me sad and upset, but I would respect his request. Two months before he told me hes not ready he needs time to think. Run 'Needs time to think about us' = I've got something cooking that may be better than you, but if it falls through, well you're my 'Plan B'. Now, he says he loves me as a person but is not in love with me anymore because of all the stuff we went through.. This is one of the weirder signs he wants you back, but hear me … After 2 weeks he said he wanted to come see me and he said I can even just meet him up on a public place so I will feel safe. For his birthday last month, I signed the card “love”. He had a breakdown and now was a different man, had found his lord again. Did he tell you why he couldn't be in a relationship with you? 21 clear-cut signs he loves you deeply. He then met me. But he says with sincerity without shaking his voice and he keeps telling me how come i didn't answer back. He was my first boyfriend, and I felt like if he only was better when it came to committing and working hard toward a relationship, we could have had something great. Reply. It might seem strange that a guy would pull away from you, but if he is confused about his feelings or he doesn’t understand what is happening in his heart, you might find him being more distant than usual. my hubby said he loved me after 2 dates - 14 years ago.... so no 4 months isn't too soon.. Add message | Report | See all. Ended up in an 8 yr relationship and we are still great friends with 2 kids. My boyfriend and i of 3 years broke up 3 days ago he said he loves me , doesent think he deserves me and that its just easier if we "leave it". It seems he was depressed, he is a drug addict in recovery. He said he loves me and nothing could change his feelings for me, this is not my fault, and this is not a break up. Hes like my bestfriend and I trust him a lot ant a feel like I can talk to him about any and everything. There are 24 hours in a day. I just had to come to terms with him confusing love with infatution. We all move there, pay off debt, then save for down payment for me to get a … We had sex after a week, and I told him to be mine after 2 weeks. I am hurt and he's living his life, I'm assuming. 2 years ago. He gives you his undivided attention when you have something to say. I loved him from the start and still today, but he doesn't. Im very confused. I was very clear with how I was feeling and what I was looking for and so it makes no sense to me. It was a relationship that was rushed and very full in just a short 2 months. He told me a lot of things and I let him in. Rethink priorities says: March 31, 2020 at 8:03 pm . I know it might not be true and he just wants to get into my pants. I had to play cool after starting an argument even though I was dying inside. Did he mean all those nice things he said? 2nd meeting we had some romance and after that he showed his interest but when i asked for marriage and commitment he said he has to complete his studies and that he does not want to marry for another 5 years as he was fresh graduate of medical and further he needed to compete his doctorate. So one day he was at at house, months after this happened, he told me that he Loved Me. He finds out starts a fight with me the next day emails her telling her he loves her and how he was gonna marry her and propose to her. Then we met and in first meeting which was for 2 min we just shook hand and saw each other. Dec. 6, 2013, 7:51 PM UTC. I said I’d wait for him to let me know when he’d like to see me. answer #2. Add message | Report | See all. At the start he told me he was looking for a long term relationship. This week, one reader is confused about why her boyfriend left her after … Im so heartbroken he truly is my bestfriend he said the relationship needs a break first and then he said that its over i dont know why but im holding onto hope do you think im wrong for doing this ? Now he has totally pull away from me. He reached out to me over two years after leaving me and getting engaged 3 months later (surprise - they didn't work out) He didn't even apologize, just wanted to "check up on me… I struggled emotionally as he never broke ties with me. It was crazy because the very second that I have finally agreed on it he called me and he said “Ok I will be wearing green etc.. remember you do not need to show up if you do not want to but you can at least take a quick look at me ok? He didn’t curse, drink, or do drugs. We just hit the 6-mo mark but he still hasn't said how he feels..he already knows I love him (accidentally told him awhile ago). reply #3. If You’re Not Saying ‘I Love You’ After Six Months, Move On March 9, 2015 by Mark Radcliffe 25 Comments Mark Radcliffe explains how “good enough” is the enemy of great love. Nicole says: March 28, 2020 at 1:21 pm . You don't ignore someone suddenly for an entire day unless you suddenly developed amnesia. About a year after we were dating him his ex gets enguaged. And then he says he loves me. He claims he loves me like he’s never loved anyone before and that he asked God to send him a good Christian women. You shouldn't have to go out of your way to find a man's feelings. So why hasn’t he told me that he loves me… Wish you the best this year”. Thrn he will say sorry, he loves me n cant live without me. 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